Photos and Text by Corey Amaro:
Growing up in a large family meant that holidays were a shared celebration, with Grand parents, Aunts, Uncles and Cousins. When I moved to France, the first holiday I shared with French Husband, was very quiet with just the two of us. It felt odd not to have more people around. Ever since that first holiday I have made it a mission to ask everyone we know, what they are doing for the "holidays" and if they are alone, or if they don't have anything special planned, would they like to join us. Our holidays have never been the same since.
Yesterday, our family and friends gathered to celebrate Easter. Since French Husband's niece was coming with her two children (Both are cute, adorable, fun loving... but one is an extremely, wild, child.) we decided to have two tables- a "children's" table and a "big people's" table.
As a child I loved the children's table. Sitting around with my brothers and cousins. It was always fun. But mainly, I preferred the children's table because I was a picky eater, and sitting at the children's table I didn't have to eat everything on my plate.
Since Tatiana and Jarrod, (French Husband's niece's children) are little I asked Sacha if he would sit with them, help them and of course keep them entertained while the adults ate in the other room. (In France a meal during the holidays can take up to several hours. Ours lasted a mere four hours.) It is nearly impossible to sit calmly as an adult let alone for a child.
Sacha wasn't keen to the idea. He felt demoted. He felt nervous, punished, and downright scared. He teasingly smirked, "You mean I am the Easter Bunny babysitter? Mom, Jarrod is like a tornado, I will have to keep my eye on him constantly. That isn't my idea of a lovely lunch!"
I had to beg him. Plead with him, and at last I offered him a job, "I'll pay you to babysit." He agreed. He was nervous, but money has a way of talking to a teenage boy.
It was a deal.
Tatiana, who spent the weekend with us talked and talked she adores Sacha. Sacha took his role as Easter Bunny Babysitter seriously, he kept his eye constantly on Jarrod, while giving Tatiana attention too.
Jarrod was an angel under Sacha's guidance. It was a match made in heaven, with a little cash flow in between.
When they finished their meal, Sacha took them for a walk to the park. Hours later they came home for the Easter Egg hunt.
I heard the front door open, and as soon as I did I knew something extraordinary had happened. Sacha sent an unwelcoming cheer, "Hell-ooooooo we are home... with one, soaking wet, and muddy boy and one little girl with a ruined dress and soaked shoes!"
All of us big people came running into the kitchen... there stood Jarrod, wet and muddy from head to toe. With a sad, mournful look, that only a little boy can give when he knows he is in big trouble... a look of begging mercy.
Before we could ask what happened, Sacha volunteered, "I never took my eye off of them, but in a split second Jarrod jumped into the creek, then chased Tatiana, and took off her shoes and threw them into the creek. Fun, fun, fun I love little kids!
Oh it was a wild Easter and I don't regret any of it! But I expect I will have to pay the babysitter double next time.
oh poor sacha!! :D
Posted by: Alexis Lozano | 13 April 2009 at 01:48 PM
Oh my goodness, what a day! I'm sure that Sacha will not agree to take this job on again.
My question is....... What is on the wall behind them? It looks like a giant page from an old ledger book. Fascinating.
- Suzanne
Posted by: Suzanne, the Farmer's Wife | 13 April 2009 at 02:06 PM
Having served my own stints as a teenager in charge of the children's table, I recall trouble at times. But I also remember how adult I felt given the responsibility. Bravo Sacha.
Didn't even see the wall treatment...I was too absorbed in the polka-dot, scallop-hemmed tablecloth. So festive.
Posted by: liz malloy | 13 April 2009 at 02:32 PM
Tell Sacha he is my hero. Your table looks beautiful. I'm happy you had such a special day.
Posted by: Sheala | 13 April 2009 at 02:43 PM
Sacha deserves the golden egg!!!
Posted by: Laura | 13 April 2009 at 02:47 PM
What a great story!!! I just love "little" kids!!! Sounds like you had a delightful Easter.
Posted by: Vicki | 13 April 2009 at 02:48 PM
Did Bunny Babysitter succeed in keeping the tablecloth and clothes spotless during the meal and hop to the park?
Just noticed that table cloth is plasticized cloth. I use them, but have yet to try to scallop the sides, for festivity.
Posted by: Jend'isère | 13 April 2009 at 03:09 PM
Are you sure Sascha wasn't secretely hoping to be the official(ly paid) Bunny-sitter?
Anyway, is a good sports,
a good kid of good parents.
Congratulations! :-)
Posted by: Merisi | 13 April 2009 at 03:26 PM
It is going to take more than double next time. More than you can afford.
Poor Sacha.
Posted by: Paula | 13 April 2009 at 03:26 PM
A wonderful thought to spend time sharing a meal with friends and family.Sacha literally kept an eye on the 'Wild Child' from those pictures he never seems to take them off! Wild children always manage to get away though, even under the most watchful eye. Tatiana and Jarrod what lovely names, almost fairy tale just like your day.
ana
Posted by: Ana | 13 April 2009 at 03:29 PM
a very nice Easter, Corey!
I see a pink hula hoop. I also have one. it's helping me to get rid of some love handles, he-he.
Posted by: Irina | 13 April 2009 at 03:55 PM
Bravo to Sacha for taking on this task! I think he has a much better understanding of how quickly kids can get into mischief even when you never take your eyes off them.
Bless you for seeking out and inviting those who have no plans for the holiday to join your lovely family!
Marilyn (in Dallas)
Posted by: Marilyn | 13 April 2009 at 03:56 PM
Bravo Sacha! That menu sounded delish and I don't even eat salmon or mushrooms!
Posted by: Jeanette M. | 13 April 2009 at 04:11 PM
You have a beautiful extended family, Corey! Well done, Sacha, on your bunny-sitting! We could have used Sacha's services yesterday as well... we had numerous wild children (no jumps in the creek however). =)
Posted by: beachy | 13 April 2009 at 04:26 PM
Kudos to Sacha. You and FH have raised a lovely son!
Posted by: Annette | 13 April 2009 at 04:32 PM
The parents probably were incredibly appreciative of having a break from watching the kids. Sacha-I've been there, and there is no amount of money equal to the hard job you had watching those imps!
Corey-your home looks beautiful with the Easter decor and table.
Posted by: martina | 13 April 2009 at 04:47 PM
Well, the deal never mentioned the 2 little Easter chicks had to finish the day neat and tidy !?!
(When a teenager, I was always picked as the babysitter, whatever the event !!! ... but I was never ever paid for that... I'm no good bargainer... I think I could be a billionnaire now !!!)
Posted by: Marie-Noëlle | 13 April 2009 at 04:57 PM
HAha....as the mother of a "wild child", I can appreciate why it took a little palm greasing to get the job done. Poor Sacha.
Posted by: Cindy | 13 April 2009 at 05:17 PM
It's good to know you have a Bunny baby-sitter in case you have any unruly guests in the next few months. ;)
Posted by: Alina | 13 April 2009 at 05:30 PM
Pauvre Sacha, but you know, in the end, these little babysitting jobs are a glimpse to the future when you'll HAVE to keep an eye on YOUR little imps.
You are growing up to be a MOST handsome man!
Denise
Posted by: Denise Moulun-Pasek | 13 April 2009 at 05:38 PM
Sacha surely earned his angel wings yesterday not to mention a great set of bunny ears. Wonderful!!
Posted by: annieelf | 13 April 2009 at 06:11 PM
I giggled through the whole entry. Poor Sacha. hee hee hee....
I remember Sacha's face a few entries back....full of devilishness in his strawberry boxers........and now his face here with this 'I hate my life' expression. Hahahahahahaa... my 18 yr old daughter says she feels his pain. She is always the designated babysitter.
Posted by: Amy | 13 April 2009 at 06:13 PM
Sasha definitely earned his wages as the Easter Bunny Babysitter. Loved the picture of Sasha talking to Annie.
Posted by: marilyn | 13 April 2009 at 06:32 PM
Sacha is a SAINT!! I hated sitting at the kids table, so I could feel your pain! Sacha, give yourself a BIG congratulations! You deserve every cent of your Easter Bunny Babysitter payment!! Next time, charge double! :)
Posted by: Cy | 13 April 2009 at 06:51 PM
Sacha is such a doll!
He probably does so well with young children, because of all the experience he's had with your nieces and nephews.
From the looks of it, he seems to be good with the elderly, too. He looks like he is so engaged and attentive to what the lady, in the photo, is saying.
~elaine~
Posted by: Elaine L. | 13 April 2009 at 07:30 PM
Oh what a story. Wild Child. I have a granddaughter like that. She had every child over here barefoot (it was only 60 something degrees) and it had sprinkled and they were in and out and in and out. Round and round they went. There are no older little people, so they had so much fun. Poor Sacha...my heart goes out to him. Share with him, that my son and his pals had gotten muddy during a birthday party at our home. When we found them they were hosing each other off... so much fun to explain to the parents!!
Posted by: marlis | 13 April 2009 at 07:36 PM
Oh Corey that is funny. Although Sacha probably didn't think so. Kids!!! You never know what they will do next.
Hope you had a wonderful Easter, despite the mishap.
Lorene
Posted by: Lorene | 13 April 2009 at 07:49 PM
Sacha is a good husband/father in training! You bet he deserved being paid for that job because from the look on his he was taking his task seriously. Petit Jarrod will be good too it sounds like he has a lot of energy. I'm sure that creek was just too tempting. It's scenes like these that we remember on our death beds not the dull normal ones! What a fun family.
We roasted Peeps in an outside fire. It was more like fall than a spring holiday. Maybe I'm just warped but I think it's hilarious when kids act like Jarrod. Maybe I won't think it's too funny when my new grandchild arrives in November. I'm sure he/she will always be perfect ; )(secretly I hope not!).
Posted by: Linda Hanselman | 13 April 2009 at 08:44 PM
Children are our best teachers, a perfect ending to a beautiful day...it is what makes memories
Good Luck on trying to convince Sacha to do that again. I have done that to my son in the past, and I have never been able to convince him again to babysit those same children let alone any child(ren)
Oh your table setting and menu was beautiful, and so was Annie..
Joanny
Posted by: Joanny | 13 April 2009 at 08:46 PM
how funny.......in every picture you can see sacha riveted to jarrod. i grew up with a big fmaily so even though we didn't celebrate with our extended family very often, it feels very odd to celebrate holidays with just my husband. a little empty. i'll have to start cpoying you and asking random people over for the holidays.
Posted by: heather | 13 April 2009 at 09:07 PM
fun fun...what's better than jumping in the creek?? sigh. I kind of miss that "wild child" days now that my girls and their friends are in their 20's and 30's.:)
hugs to you, sweetie,
Happy Easter {you do have 2 days, there, right?}
Lidy
Posted by: frenchgardenhouse | 13 April 2009 at 09:36 PM
Corey,
I love that menu on your wall!
Posted by: Diogenes | 13 April 2009 at 10:05 PM
So funny and cute Corey!!
Glad you had a lovely Easter!!
I have to tell you, I really enjoyed the article in the new Somerset Life!!
You are such a good writer and photorapher!!
Thanks,
Rosemary
Posted by: Rosemary | 13 April 2009 at 10:15 PM
May I please ask...? Why is the 'Wild Child"... "wild"????
'Aunt Amelia'
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Hi Aunt Amelia-
I used the word "wild" as to say he is a handful.
Corey
Posted by: 'Aunt Amelia' | 13 April 2009 at 11:53 PM
Great story Corey! My son has a similar disposition to Sacha's. It's nice to see a teenaged boy help entertain pre-schoolers and see him grin at the endless imagination that these little ones can spin together!
Posted by: dkmp9293 | 14 April 2009 at 02:55 AM
hahaha! what fun!
hey, I'm really wanting the 'poster' hanging on the wall behind Sacha and Tatiana!! Any chance I can get one???
Jill
Posted by: Jill Flory | 14 April 2009 at 03:01 AM
Corey,
It sounds like fun was had by all. I like that! I wish you a week filled with all the things and people you love.
Cathy
Posted by: Cathy J. | 14 April 2009 at 03:04 AM
So funny and what a sweet boy to watch the kids....and sit at the "kiddie" table.
Posted by: Jeanne | 14 April 2009 at 03:21 AM
Me too, I have so many memories of children table, being one of 11 cousins! Well, at least you had no time for being bored....
Posted by: Gracie | 14 April 2009 at 09:20 AM
Sacha,
You earned every Euro!
Next year you will need to ask for at least double! I bet the poor tired parents thought it was worth ecry bit of the money to have a break from such energetic kids! My only disapointment is...
WHERE IS THE PHOTO OF THE MUDDY KIDS!!!!
Posted by: Gina | 14 April 2009 at 10:58 AM
Happy easter to you and your family!
What a wonderful son you have!
Posted by: Cama | 14 April 2009 at 12:06 PM
...what a great story...and the double wages may not be enough for next year...thanks for sharing ...
Posted by: Becky | 14 April 2009 at 03:02 PM
Corey, I love your photos, I felt as if I was there, too. Bless you for being so generous! This was the first Easter that my daughter and I were away from any family. A kind and loving elderly couple from church invited us to join them and four other (single and without family)gals they also invited for Easter dinner, and it was such a blessing. We ate and visited at the table for more than four hours- guess we had a traditional French dinner, too!
Posted by: pam | 14 April 2009 at 06:21 PM
He definitely earned every penny! We had a kids' table for Easter too, but in the same room, so we could keep an eye on them but still enjoy the adult conversation without too many interruptions - it helps to have a nice long room to fit us all in.
Posted by: Kit | 14 April 2009 at 08:16 PM
Sacha sounds like a wonderful son and babysitter.
Posted by: Beverly | 15 April 2009 at 12:41 AM