What if… I should have… If only…                                                           Kübler-Ross lists that there are five stages that a grieving person goes through.…

             the spirit moves. stillness is a lovely dance. it helps to have flowers up your sleeve. softness, tied with a bow. let the spirit move.

    There is a first time for everything…. and a second time for most things. Each day the face of this new journey (my family is on) makes itself known. Popping up in the most familiar places staring nakedly…

Sacha called to talk. With each of his words, I wanted to jump through the phone and pinch his cheeks.  Somehow to get back to the days where he was a little boy and I could hug him for hours without…

My Mother, a little girl, sits, in my father’s easy chair. moment by moment healing in the evening…

Little souvenirs. Tucked in pockets, stuffed in the corner of the drawer, left unattended in a box on top of the closet or under the bed. Moments are treasured and stored within the heart, bobbing in the back of one's…